Dear Heavenly Father,
Make me a better parent.
Teach me to understand my children, to listen patiently to what they
have to say and to answer all their questions kindly.
Keep me from interrupting them, talking back to them and contradicting
them. Make me as courteous to them as I would have them be to me. Give
me the courage to confess my sins against my children and to ask them
forgiveness when I know that I have done them wrong.
May not I vainly hurt the feelings of my children. Forbid that I should
laugh at their mistakes or resort to shame and ridicule as punishment.
Let me not tempt my child to lie or steal. So guide me hour by hour
that I might demonstrate by all I say and do that honestly produces
happiness.
Reduce, I pray, the meanness in me. May I cease to nag; and when I am
out of sorts, help me O Lord, to hold my tongue. Blind me to the little
errors of my children, and help me to see the good things they do.
Give me a ready word to honest praise. Help me to grow up with my children,
to treat them as those of their own age, but let me not expect of them
the judgments and conventions of adults.
Allow me not to rob them of the opportunity to wait upon themselves,
to think, to choose and to make decisions. Forbid that I should ever
punish them for my selfish satisfaction.
May I grant them for all their wishes that are reasonable and have the
courage always to withhold a privilege which I know will do them harm.
Make me fair and just, so considerate and companionable to my children
that they will have a genuine esteem for me. Fit me to be loved and
imitated by my children.
Amen
~ Author Unknown